One of my girlfriends Dee taught me how to make my curls look fuller, bigger, sexier, but most importantly...softer...
Follow these steps below from here down (sorry for my inconsistency)
Step 1: Blow dry hair upside-down
Step 2: With curling iron, curl 1-2 inch thick bunches of hair all over
Step: 4 Spray at a distance
brush through curls, then spray... in that order